Verfasst von Rolf F. Katzenberger am Di, 2010-03-30 05:34.
Dear S: I felt stressed just by *reading* your comment, so I can almost feel your pain, too. IMHO, there is no use in trying to “involve him with the process”, since it either is *his* process or no process at all. You’re trying out a lot of things in an attempt to fix the situation, but better do not waste years in letting this become another sad sample case of co-dependency. Seek professional help and advice and gain a better understanding whether you really want to be part of *his* process. There is neither a silver bullet solution nor is there anything you can do on your own to amend the situation.
@S
Dear S: I felt stressed just by *reading* your comment, so I can almost feel your pain, too. IMHO, there is no use in trying to “involve him with the process”, since it either is *his* process or no process at all. You’re trying out a lot of things in an attempt to fix the situation, but better do not waste years in letting this become another sad sample case of co-dependency. Seek professional help and advice and gain a better understanding whether you really want to be part of *his* process. There is neither a silver bullet solution nor is there anything you can do on your own to amend the situation.